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Glam Challenge # 2: Love

In celebration of this month’s Valentine’s Day, I would like to share with you our glam photo this month. Drum roll…Tada!!! 

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If you notice, our group is getting bigger – we’re now three.  We welcome our friend Mrs. O, whom starting this month is also joining us in this challenge (Yey!). Special thanks to Judy (10 years old)  who lovingly prepared our chocolate chips for this photo. Happy Galentine’s Day!

“Listening is an attitude of the heart, a genuine desire to be with another which both attracts and heals.” (attr. to J. Isham)

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Glam Challenge Update

If you have been following my blog, then you have probably read about the glam challenge I accepted from my friend Mrs. D. sometime in May of last year. At first, I thought the challenge would be easy peasy: just dressing up and taking a selfie. You would think it is a piece of cake, right? Well, not even close. Mrs. D. and I have encountered some hiccups along the way. A couple of those I considered the most challenging are the following:

Busy schedule or lack thereof 

The idea of our glam challenge was to celebrate success: we both were starting our dream careers and felt a need to digitize our activities away from books and “no comb” days. While you would think it is simple to take a photo of ourselves before heading to work or going for a husband date – well, hell heck no, sorry! We have no training when it comes to modeling. Remember, I am an instructor and Mrs. D is a lawyer. So you can imagine our struggles just to get a decent photo. Most often than not we had a tendency to take the glam out of glamour.

A One Woman-Show

I didn’t realize the complexity of fashion photography until I got myself involved in this glamour challenge. Initially I would just ask my supportive husband to take my photos. To his credit, he went along with my shilly-shally whims and fancies for months until I became a picky subject. My husband can only take one or two shots and he’s out, so that didn’t last very long. In fairness, however, he didn’t leave me totally in the dark. I told you, my husband is the best. On my birthday he surprised me with a tripod, and I interpreted it as his way of saying to me you are on your own.

I must admit, the tripod was a tremendous help; however, the problem in photography is not only having a good photographer. Chasing good lighting as well as perfect timing are also important factors. I realized that if you’re not a trained model or someone comfortable having your photos taken in public, it could be real challenging.

Mrs. D has shared the same predicaments. Perhaps hers were even greater than mine since not only is she a career woman, but she’s also a full-time mom. Thankfully, despite our struggles, we persisted and successfully accomplished our goal. From May to December last year we were able to put together 20 collages of our glamour efforts, and here are some of my favorites:

Glam challenge update

To celebrate the success of our first venture, we are coming up with our Glam Challenge Year 2. This time we are taking our challenge to a higher level; perhaps coming up with more artistic shots and meaningful concepts. Indeed, something to look forward to. However, let me clarify that our glam challenge is more than just exchanging photos; it is about our friendship.

We often forget that friendships are like a garden. They need tending, too. You need to weed, water, and nurture to get those fabulous petunias with those funnel-shaped corollas. Making good friends may be easy, but keeping them and developing into best friends is the difficult part. This is true for people like Mrs. D and I who live on two different continents. It is so easy to give up friendships when you are apart and juggling career in between household chores and other responsibilities. So, that is the real test of our Glam Challenge project. Mrs. D. and I will attempt to keep our friendship alive by bridging the gap of time and distance that separate us. As a testament to our hard fought battles to attain our new careers we truly believe that there is nothing impossible to those who persist, including our friendship. Wish us luck!

“Friendship is not just about hanging out; it’s finding time in spite of having very little…” Pinay E-motion

 

 

 


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Wanted Teachers!

Yesterday I attended a job fair here in Florida – my very first one. I already expected that there would be a lot of job applicants from different counties; however, what I didn’t anticipate was that it would be jammed packed like a movie premiere of Star Wars. I had to line up for 30-45 minutes just to get to the registration table. And mind you, the registration table was manned by at least 10 staff members to accommodate all the hopeful applicants. Almost everyone who came to the fair was dressed professionally for the occasion. Many, despite the sweltering Florida heat, wore business suits or at least smart casuals. I also spotted a few women all dolled up and wearing towering high heels and even stilettos. I guess that was understandable. On an occasion like this, I truly believe that professional appearance which exudes one’s self-confidence can make a lot of difference. However, a word of caution on makeup: if applying makeup is not your strength, go slowly with your color selection and application. Remember this is a job fair not a Halloween party. Since I am also not big on makeup, I intentionally just applied my favorite lipstick and mascara for a hint of color. With those two, I know I can’t go wrong.

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Warming up the bench!

The job fair was held in a local high school campus. Upon my arrival, I was immediately ushered to the entrance where a staff person asked job applicants to line up for clearance. When I heard her instructions, the first thing that came to my mind was a security protocol. Silly me! I forgot this is not the Philippines, where bags are checked before entering an important establishment (although I do see that changing in the U.S.). Approaching the registration table, I finally discovered that “clearance” refers to the teacher’s certification/s. That is another important lesson to remember. Don’t forget to bring your credentials when you attend a job fair because you never know what employers will ask or require. Thankfully, I brought my portfolio with me, which saved my day.

Once inside the venue, I was amazed by the number of tables representing schools/employers looking to hire teachers. It was like the proverbial beehive with bees swarming everywhere. I couldn’t even comprehend the magnitude of the crowd. It was more like a county fair instead of a job fair. There were employers-applicants’ introductions, inquiries, interviews, and actual hiring all in one stop shopping. With the size of this crowd, and if all are qualified, I am sure Florida will be prepared for teachers for the next school year.

It didn’t take long before I accomplished my mission. On my way back to the car, I realized that the notion of “job shortages” sometimes may be subjective. This job fair proves that indeed there are jobs available, especially if you are focused in your search. The only question is, are you credentialed and skilled for the job vacancies? If your answer is no, then you surely have some work to do. However, if your answer is a reverberating YES, then there’s no doubt that you have a chance to be successfully hired. It may be just a matter of time…

All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them. –Walt Disney


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Challenges are Challenging

Do you remember my LFBG Challenge in 2015? Those who are following my blogs, of course, know that it eventually succumbed to an unfortunate crash and burn halfway to the finish line. However, in fairness, although I came up short in completing that challenge, I can honestly say that I successfully scored several opportunities for growth that year.

Then the calendar flipped over to a new year, and just early this year I agreed to my friend’s photo challenge. The idea was to support each other in our quest to hone our skills in photography. When we launched our challenge, we were the embodiment of persistence. Every week we deliberately assigned themes and excitedly exchanged images we had taken. I thought it was fun as I was constantly creating opportunities to go out to take pictures. However, things have changed. My friend’s schedule became demanding and our challenges slowly died a natural death. So sad!

The early demise of our photo challenge didn’t stop me from taking pictures, however. As a matter of fact, I’m up for another challenge. This time with another friend whom I am going to refer to in this blog as Ms. D to protect her privacy. I am more optimistic that this challenge will survive the test of time as Ms. D has shown consistency over the years we have known each other.

Ms. D and I share a lot of commonalities. Like me, she is also married to a foreigner and now residing abroad. Our friendship was further solidified during the time we were both juggling graduate school while simultaneously playing our role as housewives, plus motherhood in her case. You may remember that I documented in this blog some of my struggles while I was attending my program. I remember Ms. D and I exchanged stories about sleepless nights and extreme fatigue, which, of course, was commonplace in graduate school. It was tough, and I couldn’t believe we both survived and made it through. That is the heart of this new challenge we have just created. Now that we have both graduated and currently working in our chosen fields, we have decided to go for our glamour challenge. Gone are the days of “no-comb-days”, conjuring up images of bed head bouffant. For the next fifty-two weeks, we will celebrate success through glamour (for whatever that means). We will digitize it by exchanging one captured image each week. Will we push through, or will we fade away? Come and join us and see how far this challenge will endure…

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Hang in there!

“Challenges are what makes like challenging and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.” – Joshua J. Marine